Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Thanks for your everything~!


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My friend sent me this article to my email lately.. I found it is very interesting and wish to share with everybody...

有人扯后腿,怎么办?
  
假如人与人之间,彼此因不了解而产生碰撞、磨擦,也要将别人当作磨炼我们的石头来感恩。因为良玉未经粗石磨炼不能发光、发亮,钻石亦然。然而石头会因碰撞、磨擦而磨损,所以要感恩石头的牺牲而成就我们的发光、发亮,我们要从内心发出真正的感恩。

看到病人做复健,发现可学习可启发的地方很多。有一位阿巴桑在活动的走路机上练习走路,她的脚上绑着伸缩的弹性带,弹性带的一端绑在墙上,虽然脚被绑着,她还是要用力的举起踏出。

问复健师为何要把脚绑上?她说:「用来复健━━练脚力。」我问阿巴桑:「这样需要比较用力哦?」阿巴桑回答:「这样已经增加力量了」。这让我想到静思语中的一句话:「若有人扯后腿,要心存感恩。没有人『扯』,就练不出腿劲。」。

人与人之间相处,不要太计较,否则做事会很辛苦。不要把人事当是非,要把是非当教育,这就是待人处事最好的方法。要常心存感恩,哪怕是扯我们后腿的人,也要感恩他让我们练脚力,若能如此,就能克服一切。这就是我们修行的道场,道场有这些障碍,才能修心养性。

A Garden of Hope, Joy and Love~


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Thinking back when I was some year during secondary school… Hope to dedicate this blog to my students or those teenagers’ readers perhaps? Let us share all the joys of beautiful life together…

Growing up is all about the learning. It has never been said to be easy, never declared a bed of roses. In fact, we have not truly blossomed into mature and deep thinking adults without experiencing a certain degree of hardship and struggle. We grow through experience and through experience we gain hope, self confidence, and most significantly – strength to go on the living.

At one stage of my life (some time during my secondary moments), I woke up from my slumber every morning dejected and dispirited. I would gaze at the shriveled and wilting plant mourning at my windowsill and lament.

“Another day, another disappointment, another failure…”

So pessimistic huh?! At one point, I found no joy in my life. I felt akin to an insignificant flake in a blizzard of success and confidence. I thought I was alone in this unpredictable world with no one who could understand how I felt. I blame everybody around me. In my blindness, I allowed myself extremely distorted anger and hurt to surface, encasing my heart in bitter, cold ice.

Life is a garden of hope, joy and love.





If we delve deeply into our hearts, we will ascertain that we process such an infinite capacity to love, to touch the lives of others and to make a difference in the world. Many among us conclude that we are powerless against the invisible forces in this world, as we are just tiny flocks of colors in a canvas of adversity. Yes, I have to concede that we may not able to change the world to what we envisage but we can make it a better place to live in.

As Mother Theresa once quoted,

“We are each a drop of water in an ocean of need, but a drop of water that would be missed if it were not there.”